You will either say to God "thy will be done" or God will say to you, "your will be done."  If you want nothing to do with God while on earth you will not want anything to do with him in eternity.  Check out my Friends with Benefits article above.  1 John 4:8, God is love!  Without God there is no love. He is the source of all love. Earth is a place that has love and hate.  We feel both love and hate.  The decision is ours to make.  You are in a time where people are embracing the hate.  If you don't reach out to God and embrace him you will fall into a place where all there is, is hate. Cling onto God like a little child who is gripping their parents with all their strength. Embrace  him now before you are in a place where there is no love.  When you really love someone you will do things to make them happy more than you want to do things to make you happy.  Find the time to spend with him even if you have no time.  Pray on the way to work or in the morning find some quiet time with the Lord.  Turn of the TV and read the Bible.  He will speak through his word, in your dreams, through visions and directly in your thoughts. When you start listening to him you will start hearing him.  John 10:27 My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me: